What is wrong with me?

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My boyfriend and I have tried many times to have sex but it causes me a severe burning pain that brings me to tears and will last up to like an hour afterwards. We have tried lube and plenty of foreplay it's not like I'm not turned on. My PCP says it's just a normal thing the first time and my OBGYN says there's no reason to examine me if I'm still a virgin but the pain is horrific.

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That happened to me ONLY when i used lube to find out i was allergic to lubricant. I nearly went through the roof and was red raw. Try it without lube but make sure youre VERY wet........

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I don't think it's normal... I didn't experience any burning pain. It hurt, but it was from pressure not burning. Perhaps you should go to a planned parenthood or other clinic for women's health and talk to them. Someone who specializes in sex and vaginas might have more answers.

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Have you tried different lube? I use coconut oil for lube (mostly for anal not vaginal but you could use it for that too) just be aware that certain condoms can be damaged by coconut oil. This only applies if you are using condoms, if not don't worry about it. Coconut oil is awesome and natural! It could be as simple as the lube you're using isn't getting along well with your vagina. Just try changin it up and see if that helps. Good luck.

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I would go to an obgyn and have them look into it.

What is wrong with me?

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