So I got off of work exhausted and totally not feeling well , my little brother had his football banquet today mind you at work was laid back day so all of us were in out sweats and in laid back attire. I had on some grey sweats  and a tight black v neck shirt on with some vans , you know "cute bummy"😂 so I was already late to the banquet but still wanted to show my love and support & I didn't have time to go change into nice clothing or anything. I go the way I was I know my brother wouldn't care or be embarrassed which he wasn't and my hair was straight not a mess or anything and me and my SO go to sit down with my mom and some friends of ours and she whispers " gosh you look a mess " your hair is so dirty " I ignored it I was like oh shut it laughed it off what was I supposed to do ? So after the banquet I decided to stop by at my moms house to hang out with my brother for a bit & she comes into his room and is like " can I just say you looks a hot mess at the banquet o don't think you understand that how you look is a reflection of me as a mom. Like what ? I was like are you seriously going to just talk shit to me ?