Baby Shower- Help Me!!!

Amber • 20 years old, mumma to my beautiful boy Oliver and expecting my second in Jan 2018 👶🏼
So a friend and my cousin both offered to help me plan my baby shower but both haven't helped one bit since I sent out invites, so I'm stressing out a little because now I have to plan this shower ontop of organising a family Christmas and a baby arrival (on a budget btw since both myself and my partner are out of work), I'm begging for some advice on what I should plan for the baby shower! I'm having a boy and would love past baby shower mums advice on what food I should serve (when I should make/prepare it), what games we could play, decorations, anything else I'm missing, any advice and inspiration would be a huge help!