Hi everyone! My husband and I got married 9 months ago and we love each other so much! A month before we got married, I started using birth control. Before then, we have had sex and I did not have any problem with my libido or any pain at all. But these past few months, even though I love him and want him more than anything, I can never get myself to want sex. He's really careful and get sad when he hurts me, which probably happens because it's really dry down there :( even when we have the foreplay, I don't feel anything kissing him. We tried lubricants but they don't work as well.