Apparently my in laws have disliked me since they met me at 15... That's 10 years! I was an honor student, played sports, and worked in high school. I was very mature. I now work full time and am still in college and we have a child together... She texted me saying they view us as the family screw ups but we are always welcome at her home because she loves us... Obviously I was offended and told my husband my son and I will not be going there anymore for family functions because that hurt a lot. 

How do I handle this with my husband's parents (specifically his mom)? I won't walk into her home and approach her with this; I wouldn't want someone coming into my home like that. But I refuse to go over there for the holidays because I don't think I can bite my tongue and out of respect for my husband it's best I stay away for now. 😡

My sister in law is 36 and definitely not a drama person. I think she was actually being honest with me because I told her I felt like sometimes I'm given the cold shoulder and she said "Hun, I don't want to upset you but you can't let it bother you, they've felt this way for a while and that there have been better options for my brother. But they don't realize the happiness and how much you mean to him."