Don't get stressed?

Question

How? How do you not get stressed when something you've wanted for as long as you can remember just isn't happening? Everyone says stop trying and it will happen.. But how do you stop trying? How do you stop wishing you were having a baby? How do you live life and not think about when it's going to happen? What if I'm not meant to be a mother? Why can't I just know now? I don't know if I'm strong enough.. How do you not go to that dark place?
I know I have not been through what some people have when it comes to TTC but these are still thoughts that haunt me. How come it's so easy for some people but not for others? Some people don't even want this yet it happens! Just feeling lost..

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I work full time and have plenty of things to juggle, my fertility is just one of them. I think you need to keep yourself busy and try and live as fulfilling life as you can so you're not focusing on the what-ifs. Being a mother is a high priority for me but I'm trying not to let it define me.

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I feel the same way!! It's so hard!!

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It's impossible to not be stressed. That's a cold, hard truth. Sadly, you're going to have to accept it. That's the colder, harder truth. But keep in mind that things get better! You will become stronger & braver than you already are. Optimism is key, engage in things you enjoy & make you happy. Make the best of any situation even if it's not ideal. All this is easier said than done but the most you can do is try! I wish you good luck in any of your endeavours, choose happiness! :)

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Wake up every day and write down 3 things you are thankful for. You will seriously feel 20 x better and be more productive if you start your day like this.

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