I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my partner and I are currently living 2 hours away from each other.

He keeps telling me he will be moving in with me, and I haven't seen him in a week and a half. He has his life over there, and he goes to shows and parties a lot and I think he's not very willing to leave that life behind yet. He tells me he doesn't know when he'll feel like "visiting" me again yet.

Should i expect him to move in with me immediately and start to grow up, or just let him ease into it? He's 23. I dont know if Im just hormonal but I'm so upset that he is not even trying to be around me much and is okay with being 2 hours away from his pregnant girlfriend every day..