Why is it so hard to see other people pregnant

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I hate seeing babies or hearing someone's pregnant I get so jealous and I know I'm not supposed to but it's so hard knowing that's supposed to be me what did I do wrong to lose my baby and I feel like no one really understands my pain truly

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I'm sorry for your loss. 
We are going through a loss of our own. Our son was diagnosed with short-rib skeletal dysplasia and they say that he won't survive after he born. 
I know what you're going through. Even though I am pregnant, it's so very hard seeing babies and pregnant women knowing that we won't get to being ours home. 
Regardless of what is going on, just try to look at the bright side of things as best you can. It will be hard but also know that one day you WILL have a baby if your own. :)

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I had to go to the doctor yesterday for Rhogam shot after my chemical and as I sat in the waiting room there were three other ladies who were all VERY pregnant I sat there and I am sure I was just green in the face with envy ... I hope one day I get my day to shine!!

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I'm sorry for your loss, I'm the same way I just had a miscarriage last week I was 13 weeks it's really hard to see other pregnant women and I can't stand seen baby's, and I just hate so much seen my sis-in-law cause she's pregnant but she doesn't even love her kid's she always lives them to my brother or mom and she goes out to party and do drugs and I have been trying to have kids for the past 5 years and every time I get pregnant I have a miscarriage this was my #8 miscarriage

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I am very sorry for your loss. I know what u feel, I had m/c in 8wks. I work with children and newborns. I cannot look at the without imagining how my baby would look like if he/she had survived. And my coworker is pregnant and her due date is the same as mine was. I am very angry and very sad sometimes. Big hugs for you.

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I told my husband I was going to start deleting everyone on social media that post pregnancy or baby pictures.

Also he had to go to his brothers baby shower alone today and I stayed at home in bed and cried.

You're not the only one...

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I feel the exact same way, you are not alone in feeling this way

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I understand thanksgiving was really hard for me because my sil had her baby the day before and then both friends who shared due dates with me announced they had found out they were having boys. We would have known the gender of our baby this week also. Then got on Facebook and multiple people announced they were pregnant.. I just cried, when we got home from dinner.

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I definitely understand. I went to a murder mystery dinner with my husband last night  and there were two pregnant women there. To add insult to injury, one of the actors asked one of the pregnant ladies to teach us all a move that she does in prenatal yoga. I almost ran out of there in tears.

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A couple nights ago I posted on another group that I lost my baby. Some pregnant b**** responded asking why I would share cause she had enough to worry about. I'm like, for real?!

I haven't seen any pregnant women yet but I told my mom I would lose my s*** when I do. I have friends that didn't even want a baby and got pregnant. And here I am with nothing.

I feel your frustration. It sucks.

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I feel the same way. I was supposed to be due July 1st. A lot of people I know on Facebook have been announcing their pregnancies all due in July of 2016. It's just hard to be happy for them even though I comment and say "OMG I'm so happy for you!!"

My friend has 3 kids already and her husband had a vasectomy but never followed up, and when I told her I was pregnant she was like "omg that reminds me I was supposed to get my period today maybe I am too..." That was like 5 -6 weeks ago.. Mutual friend told me she ended up being pregnant and found out not long after we talked.

I'm just so bitter.

Why is it so hard to see other people pregnant

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