My husband and his baby mama were together for 6 years. They always broke up and got with other people for a month or so, then got back together. They had a son. They still broke up and got back together after. He left her for the last time when she accused him of cheating (for the millionth time) on her with his coworker because his coworker gave him some of her son's old toys for his son. 

He met me and we talked for about a month. We both liked that neither of us drank or did drugs or partied, and we had a lot in common. We went on our first date and spent time together every day after, until he asked me out a week later. 

Once his ex found out he had someone new, she started harassing us both. She made 4 fake facebooks a day, and would send us both messages. She started keeping his son away from him out of spite, because she figured that would make him come back to her for sure. But he didn't. She was so mad, she broke into his trailer on Valentine's Day, while we were on our date, and ripped up the roses he got me, went through my purse, and completely trashed the whole place. He called the police and we sat waiting until 4:30 AM, but they never came to check it out, or talk to the neighbor that saw her car and saw her breaking in. There was a huge snowstorm that night, so it took a few days to get out, so we went to get a restraining order on her and try to press charges. The police were no help and still never did anything about it. He got a restraining order on her, though. So she stopped harassing us on social media finally. He took her to court and started seeing his son again. 

They "seemed" to be co-parenting well (cause she's fake), then she decided to start more drama and tell him that his friend said he cheated on her with me. He didn't, because we didn't even know each other until after the final time he left her. And even if he had, it doesn't matter. But she argued with him over it. 

Then she tried to follow me on Instagram and he saw the notification and clicked it and it took him straight to her profile. But she had canceled the request because she must have done it accidentally while trying to creep. He asked her about it and she denied it and denied it, even though he had proof. 

Later, she randomly called him to say that I took a screenshot of her snapchat story. We're not even friends on snapchat. It's not like if I sent a request and she saw my name she's add it. 😂 Like, duh. But my snapchat name and Instagram name are the same. I brainstormed forever on how she could have faked it to take a screenshot, then I showed my husband that you can change any friend's name to anything. I changed his that said "Husband" to his sister's username and showed him. 

After that, someone on her Instagram apparently commented on her picture "stop taking selfies and take care of your kid, you trashy ho." And she automatically blamed me. When my husband went to the profile, it was a real person, not a fake. It had 800 posts and 1200 followers. Most fake accounts have no posts and stuff. 

She is so unreasonable and dramatic and immature. My husband asked if she would lower hold support by $60. He pays $360, wanted it to be $300 instead, so the $60 can go towards my heart surgery bill. She wouldn't and went on a rant about how he should have thought of that before he married me and she doesn't want me to have any extra money and she wants to make him suffer. 

Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with the crazy, jealous, bitter psycho? She just doesn't know how to quit. She stresses my poor husband out by doing stupid stuff, which makes me stressed, and neither of us need it. It affects the time he spends with his son because at drop offs and pick ups, she always riles him up, so when he brings his son here, he's tore up and in a bad mood. He always compliments her as a mother (not sure why. A good mother doesn't keep her kid away from its father because you're jealous and want to use your kid as a pawn to get the guy back.) and he always tries to reason with her. If she calls and asks if she can keep their son instead of us getting him that day, he agrees. But she doesn't reason or compromise at all. She's so mad that he married me after a little over a year but never married her after 6 years and a child.