I'm a first time mom. I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I freak out over every single thing!! Like for some reason I feel like I am dying. I have no idea but it seems like if I get a little sore or if my ear starts hurting at night or I have a cold or don't feel that good I'm quick to think the worse. Now as Im thinking the worst. I can't help but to get online to figure out what is wrong with me. Now I recently noticed that I have spots on my tongue, there like little patches pluse I had a bad cold, sore throat from cold, and and ear ache well I looked it up online and it started talking about std and herpes and I immediately got that stuck in my head now my doctor did test me for all stds and came back Negative but the only one they didn't test me for was herpes and the spots on my tongue my doc said it looked like geographic tongue and it's harmless but I'm still so worried but I'm embarrassed to demand a test for herpes  bc she keeps acting like I don't need one also I did have a yeast infection about a 3 weeks ago and how am I supposed to no if it's even gone I'm getting frustrated bc I feel like no one really even cares that I feel this worried I've been starting to notice that I get a sharp pain around my vagina wall area and once again I have herpes stuck in my head and it scares me so much!! Please help