My mum...

Charlotte
Hope this is the right group to post in. I'm in a high risk pregnancy and mornings are extremely hard for me. I wake up exhausted, nervous, and nauseous. I need about an hour to relax until the sick feeling passes, then I get up and need to eat my breakfast calmly and quietly or I'll end up throwing it straight back up. So I've asked my family and friends if they can not contact me on a morning unless it's important. They all understand...except my mum. She calls me at 8.30am on the dot every morning, and if I don't answer, she rings again and again and sends messages telling me to call her asap. So I think it must be important, and call her back just for her to say 'oh I just wanted a chat. What you upto?' 😕 I've told her more than once now that I don't want to talk on mornings and she's just not accepting it. It's like she's doing it on purpose for some reason. And I can't turn my phone off because the last time I tried that, she turned up at the house. Not really posting for advice as honestly nothing will stop her, but just wondered if anyone has a relative being less than understanding of their needs? Someone I can relate to? I'm married and haven't lived at home for almost 10 years, even my doctor said her behaviour is out of line.