So there's this guy that I have been dating for like 4 months now. But I've known him going on 3 years now. We just recently started dating again . I had went to college back in 2013 and I just completely stopped talking to him because I didn't know where our relationship stood and he wasn't the type to talk about his feelings and I was too shy to talk to him about it. Anyways over the course of us not being together I had a child by someone else and that's a topic for another day ... But anyways the other day I told him about how I felt and how the feelings I had before are back but they are stronger . I care about him more than I ever did and I regret us being apart. So he tells me that he really likes me but he's afraid that I'm gonna hurt him again and stop talking to him . So he's like we aren't taking it to the next level until his mind heart and soul is ready. I really wanna get him something for Christmas, I'm not expecting anything in return but just to let him know that I'm for him. I feel like he knows that I'm down for him because I just gave him money when he needed it and he didn't ask me or anything but I knew he would lose his job if he didn't get the money he needed to buy his badge . But idk I'm rambling now... What should I do ladies ? I really like him.