My boyfriend and I lost out on when we were 16 and 15 and our boy was 20 weeks along. We are pregnant again at 19 and 18 and he is scared out of his mind. He is there for me much more than he was during my first pregnancy and is trying to be supportive but he's still too scared to step up to the plate. What can I do to help him? We weren't trying but it ended up happening and both of us are scared but I'm ready to do this. He just seems to be too afraid to even love his own child. I'm going to be 10 weeks on Thursday and neither of our parents know yet.