So my mom and my fiances mom are coming into the room to see the ultrasound and gender right after we see first. His step mom and grandma (his dad's mom) got mad and said I was selfish because we didn't invite them and think that it was my choice. Anybody else think that if anything, the mothers should be their instead of steps (unless the situation is different). We're both really close to our moms and we feel it's right and it's not their place to be considering how sour they've been with our relationship and pregnancy from the start.