Well endowed versus average sized...

Ok soo I had the weirdest experience or at least weird to me recently... the guys I've slept with before the most recent have all be well endowed both length and girth. Now I am tight and I know this but the average guy I felt just as much as my previous partners but I was sooo much sore and swollen afterwards I feel like the average guy was a bit more rougher then my previous partners, yes I did like it but it also just wasn't the same as the previous partners and I can't figure out why.... Anyone else have this issue