Breakup!

Kirsty
Ok so me and the father of my baby broke up last Friday and he hasn't botherd to text or get in contact with me even though I'm 22weeks pregnant with his son. The heartbreaking part is although we've been together for two years his ex started letting him see his daughter again so he said he still has feelings for his ex, I really think I should write him a letter I want to hurt his feelings for leaving me an my son I would never stop him seeing him but he needs to realise ignoring me is not an issue is anyone else growing through the same or has any idea what I could write to him x
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Fr

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Best thing to do is to wipe that guy from your mind, take some you time have your hair done (not dyed) and go out with your girls! He doesn't sound like he's worth getting you and baby upset! Hope your ok :( 

Mo

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You want to hurt his feelings?  C'mon... You're pregnant. There HAS to be other, more important things you can come up with to do that are less immature. It sucks that he broke up with you (or, maybe in the long run he did you a favor?). But, maybe spend the next 18 weeks taking care of your body and baby. It may not have been your plan, but you're a single mom now. Make your son your priority and try to get over the loss of your ex so you can be the mom your son needs/deserves. 

Me

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I am going through something very similar but he doesn't have any children other then the one I'm carrying. My advice for you is to don't bother wasting your time trying to contact him, because in the end hell retreat it just like my baby's father did...and then he did it once again. They think it's a game and it's not. They don't realize how crazy our hormones are while we're pregnant and every little thing can upset us. Do what's best for you and your son. If he cared, he'd show it. I'm sorry you have to go through this, no woman PREGNANT or not should have too. 

Ke

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Don't acknowledge him. Writing him a letter probably won't mean shit to him anyway. Just go about your life and thank your lucky stars that you got away from him. It sucks, but you'll move on. 

Ca

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I think you deserve better than him. You deserve love and respect and he's giving you neither.The best revenge you can take is to move on from this loser, take good care of yourself and your son. 

Ki

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Thanks ladies I appreciate ur comment an yeah the writing the letter thing was a silly idea it's his loss here's to being the best mum I can be to my baby boy 💙