Need a rant!!!

Megan • Trying to conceive first baby. But very ill with various things don`t think it`ll happen for a while :(
I just got a call from the doctors saying something is wrong and I need to go in to speak about hormones fertility etc I tell my husband then 10 minutes later he tells me oh he just found out his friend is expecting baby number 2! A week after he told me his cousin is expecting too! I'm so so upset that I broke down and have been so depressed since. :( men just don't get what we're going through! And everyone I talk to just says "it will happen" and to hear that is just a kick in the teeth when they get pregnant first month!!