So my sister-in-law both like the same name if we have a girl. Right now I'm pregnant and she's not. The name was my great grandmothers name and ive wanted the name since high school. Well since ive become pregnant, my mom has been over the top annoying about the name. She is desperate for me to have a girl so that I can beat my sister-in-law to the name. Any stranger she meets she tells them she wants a girl because of the name. On a daily basis she reminds me I need a girl. She's even gone as far to tell me that if I don't name the baby that name she will be mad. I feel like if o have a boy she will be disappointed. I'm even to the point where I don't want the name anymore because of her obsession. It makes me sad cause I've always loved the name, but Shes making me resent it. I'm scared she will nag me for the rest of my life if I don't pick the name. I don't know what to do! 😭