11dpo...spotting

Danielle • TTC baby number 1 for 3 years now...
So...I am 11dpo today and been 'spotting' for 3 days. I say spotting - basically there is nothing on the tissue when I wipe but only minimal when I check my cervix (sorry if that's tmi) I have a bad feeling it is just af on her way...again!so upset - has anyone had this and then a bfp.i thought this was the month but I guess I'm wrong again 😞