How soon before you should start trying again?

Kelsey • Happily Married! One angel baby, one healthy little girl, one healthy boy and one on the way! 💕
My heart hurts.  My husband and I miscarried Dec 9th at 9 weeks and 1 day with our first.  We both feel empty.    I know they say wait 3 months but my husband said maybe after my next cycle we can try. Is that too early?  I know it's a higher risk to miscarry right away again.  Just checking.