Am I in the wrong?

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Is it okay to be friends with a guy in a relationship?
I have a couple guy friends like this and I don't flirt with them at all and if they try anything with me I drop them as a friend or shut them down. These guys I've been friends with before they even got in a relationship and I would never try anything with them. My girl friends always look down on me and say "you know he has a girlfriend" am I doing something wrong?

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I mean .. as long as the guys girlfriends don't care there shouldn't be a problem . I don't allow my boy to communicate with any girls and I can't communicate with any guys .

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You aren't in the wrong. I'm even friends with my exes. My boyfriend knows and understands that we are only friends, just like your friends girlfriend should understand. If nothing happens then there should be no jealousy :) I love having guy friends :)

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If you're only friends and don't flirt or anything like that why would there be something wrong with that?

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Nope because I'm the exact same way in fact ALL my friends are guys and my boyfriend knows and he's completely fine with it. Friends are friends and of you're not crossing any likes then it's ok. I hate when people think I have to loose friends because I'm in a relationship or that my whole friendship dinamic has to change. It's all about trust.

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You're not wrong at all. As long as you don't flirt or anything you can have friends. It's extremely unhealthy for a girlfriend/boyfriend to not talk to anyone of the opposite sex once they're in their relationship and for their significant other to not let them. But, if any of your friends' girlfriends don't want you talking to them it's only kind to respect that wish (however unhealthy it is)

Am I in the wrong?

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