Anyway he came over for the third time in my bothers whole life. My dad was never in my life was full of broken promises and just made excuses for everything and I only met him about four times. By the time I was fourteen I had given up on him. 

I don't want my little bother to go through to have to go through the same thing. So I'm very protective of him. I sent his dad messages (I'll post). And he eventually came over and basically told me he's going to be there for my brother and I said yeah I've heard that before and actions speak louder than words. He than said I wasn't allowed an opinion and i thought that was funny I mean he wasn't even been here for him, bought him anything or even changed a nappy. All of which I've done since day one! 

I don't think I was rude at all with what I said. I never want my brother to go through the same things I have. 

I also told the guy. If you can change and be there I'll be happy but if you won't or you keep just messing my brother around you won't be welcome in his life anymore.