Okay so my bf and i moved in my sister in law house because we needed a little help and so does she. We got the money and she has the shelter to be blunt . so for the past 4 months she hasn't had to pay shot or work. My boyfriend makes enough to support all of us .. Rent , gas , electric , food ( she has a link card he buys food with cash ). I love my sister in law til death shes so sweet and reserved. But she NEVER does ANYTHING her 5&6 year old asks her to do . they wake up in the morning the first thing they do is come to my door asking my bf if he can cook them something to eat . WERE still sleeping and their mother has BEEN awake . if i tell them go ask mommy they say SHE WONT COOK FOR US SHE WONT DO IT . so my so has to get up cause he feels bad ( them being his blood ) amd fixes them something . this doesnt just happen in the morning . its throughout the day lunch dinner , asking for help in the bathroom , all that . now dont get my wrong she's a good mother but shes taking advantage of us . she doesnt cook or clean or pay anything. Am i being selfish ? She is capable of doing all of this and she doesnt . then to throw icing on my wonderful cake they are BAD AS HELL ! They dont listen to ANYONE including they own mother , unless someone taps them . only my so taps them when he cant take it anymore thier own mother doesnt she just lets shit fly . before we moved in here we was ttc but these bad kids made me not wanna have any kids period ! And when i say lets move out now because we back on our feet , he says she cant leave her without help. She's HIS older sister . i dont mind helping her but why cant she do her womanly duties(not to offend anyone ) ???