Problems

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 and a half years. We've had a pretty rocky 3 years , just like any other couple. I may be over reacting to this, but I don't know. We used to go out on walks, go to get a pop, or what ever else. You know, just the small little things. Those are the things I look forward to when he's off of work, that and spending time with him. We used to go do small little things together all the time, but it seems as if things are changing. He says that he is depressed and I've tried talking to him about it. The reason he says he depressed is because he wants to move out of state. Keep in mind that we have not had a "stable home" not because we can't afford it, but because he feels the need to move all the time. I've put up with it and moved with him to were he wanted to be for the last 3 years. I've put no one single word into and just up and moved with him. Okay back to him being depressed about not being able to move. He want to move back south, I don't know anyone down there I have no family and money is extremely tight right now. I told him that if we wanted to move that we would have to save back and buy a home. My friend was going to let us stay at her place for pretty cheap so I can buy my own home like I've always dreamed off. He told me know not unless he picks were we move to. He hates it her in Iowa and me I don't mind it here. We both have family that were close to and friend here and a few kids that have gotten pretty close to him. He just wants to up and leave everything our animals our things that took us forever to gain, our two cars, and just get on a bus and leave. I'm so upset about it because I don't want to go I've said to him that we are trying to start a family of our own after the misscarrage and he just has his mind set. I have know say in what is happening right now, and he wants a child. I've even said to him that I won't bring a child into a unstable inveriment. He simply does not car he's only thinking about him right now. What would all you do or say. I need advice ladies and I'm sorry my spellings not to good. Thank you