21 too young to start trying???

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Serious relationship, marriage/kids/everything all initially brought up by HIM. He's an older man, who is extremely stable and can provide. I'll be finishing up school in a semester. Just curious to see what people think!!

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Really depends on what your relationship is like, how long you have been together, if you live together etc..

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I'm 23 and I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. Both on purpose. It depends on the person. :)

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Depends on your situation and relationship. I got married and started TTC at 19. I'm 24 now and we had fertility issues so our first is finally coming in February. But if you're questioning being ready for marriage please at least figure all that out before thinking about having kids with him.

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I'd say enjoy life before having kids. 21 is super young to be having babies (imo) but at the end of the day,  do what's best for you. Gl!

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I started trying at 18. I was with a long term boyfriend who is now my husband. If you BOTH feel ready I don't see an issue :)

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Wait until you get married and get the commitment. Enjoy being married before having babies

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I got married at 21 I don't think age plays a huge role. I think maturity and where you are in life however is important. If you 2 have yourselves set up then go for it. A relationship that's healthy naturally develops.

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I know I might get alot of bad comments for this but I'm almost 18 and my bf is 20 And we are both cathlic and both our families have had babies young and alot of them. As I am coming to be a young adult we both decided that after my birthday would be a perfect time to start trying for a baby. So I guess I'm saying it all depends on how you and your partner feel

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I was always scared of infertility cause I've had ovary issues. I'm 18 now and my fiancé and I decided for me to get off my BC was best because it made me hard to function in life cause of how depressed I'd get. Before I could switch to a new one we were celebrating our engagement and one thing lead to another and we conceived that night. Wouldn't take it back for the world. We decided that if it happened it happened. We didn't necessarily protect against it but now we're expecting a beautiful little girl at the end of May ❤️ what I've learned on this site is that many people have different opinions on when is too young but honestly, it's a choice for you and the father to make. If y'all don't work out then co-parenting is only difficult if you make it that way. Good luck sweetie! Hope I helped some.

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My husband and I start TTC when I was 21 amd he was 22, we're 22 & 23 now going on 23 & 24 and I'm pregnant with #1. It's totally up to you and your husband.

21 too young to start trying???

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