irritated with boyfriend

my boyfriend didn't text me back for a couple of hours and I found out because he lost his phone (he messaged me on Facebook). That literally irritated me because he's so irresponsible. Also he's down here for the holidays visiting his family, but he lives hours away so majority of our communication is with his cellphone considering he doesn't have Internet access at his house or a house phone. I think I maybe overreacting, but it's just he isn't responsible about anything. All he cares about is making sure he gets what he wants and not what he needs.bhe even wants to move in together, but i told him no because he has no clear plan on anything. he doesn't even know what to do to support himself because his parents pay for everything for him. (they pay all the bills in his apartment that he lives in and give him money for food every week). and we're pretty young but I'm in college and I work and he does nothing. he dropped out of college and he's trying to get a job, but I don't think he tries hard enough. I love him so much. this just really bugs me. haha, rant over.