Husband disappointed in gender... Long sorry need opinions please

So I got the results back today from the testing for genetics and gender. My husband and I live in different states right now due to a financial situation (he will be moving here in a few months) and I told him I got the results of the gender back, I tried calling and calling and he said he was on the phone. Called back 20 minutes later and he was just sitting in his truck with his friend. I asked to FaceTime so we could see each other's reactions and I basically had to beg him to FaceTime. Once I got him on, it seemed like he was paying more attention to his friend rather than me. I showed him the results, and he said "oh fuck me" and rolled his eyes. Most heartbreaking thing that he could have done. I hung up on him and started bawling. I texted him and basically chewed his ass out and he said "I'm fucking excited!!!!!" But it obviously didn't seem like it. And now he won't respond to any of my messages or even try to make me feel better or apologize about his reaction. I'm so happy about this baby, no matter the gender and now he turned it into something that wasn't a happy time. He ruined this for me and I'm so mad at him...what do I do??