Does Age matters!?

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Hello Ladies! I would honestly like your opinion Im dating a 35 Year old man! And I'm 19. We have been dating for over a year now. And me and him are very happy. Many people judge us because of the big age difference. I truly love this man. I never regret saying yes to him, that day he asked me to be his girlfriend.  I'm a bit upset of how people judge us. Only because of AGE!

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It is not so much your age but where you are in life. If you were 40 and had the same age gap I would not think much of it. But you change so much from 19 to 25 to 30 to 35. When you turn 35 and look at the person you were at 19 you will be surprised. It's like how at 19 if you look back at yourself as a 13/year old.

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No but I had a similar relationship. It didn't work out because we wanted two different things and he already experienced a lot of things I hadn't and wanted to. It really depends on the couple and the maturity of both people.

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Nah! Age doesn't matter! My sister is 33 and is dating a 20 year old! People judge but they're so happy so it doesn't matter

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Sometimes it matters, sometimes it doesn't. Just be careful not to judge him as a 35 year old. Think about where you want to be when you're 35 and if you think he's in a place where you'd be happy being at 35 then awesome but if not, you might out grow him. At 19 my expectations for a partner were much lower/different than they are today. I dated guys in their mid-late 20s in my teens and I found that most of them weren't very successful professionally and didn't really have their lives in order. In my teens I was just looking for fun, as you get older, you want someone to be your equal and partner. Age can be nothing but a number or it can be much more. Only you (and those that know you both) tell you if your relationship is a good idea.

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It depends where you are in life, I have an 8 year age gap between me and my SO but I was living in my own home, working full time when I met him. If you are 19, studying and having fun this will all seem like a fairytale until you want to settle down. He will want things like a family and marriage earlier than you and that's where the problem is. If you are at the same stage in life then I think age is irrelevant :-)

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I'm 21 years older than my fiancé. We get judged based on the age difference and the fact that I'm the woman and I'm the older one. Both of us are the type to do what we want rather than what others think we should do.  Both of us are happy and in love. If you and your man are happy screw what anyone else thinks; they aren't living your life.

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Meh I was 19 and my husband 31 when we started dating.  Depends on the individuals involved.  9 years later we've been married for 5 years and have a beautiful 4 year old and baby number 2 on the way.  ;) If you're happy don't worry about everyone else.

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My aunt and uncle are 20 years apart and they are the happiest people I know. In my opinion no it doesn't matter. As long as you guys put in the effort, are compatible and don't listen to the negative others have to say.

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i dont judge but i e always dated a year or two younger never really liked older guys i hooked up once with a 43 yr old an it was weird i felt super weird. anyways my fiancé now (been with him for over two yrs) hes only ten days ilder than me hahaha😄 but i dont belive on puting a number on love unless ur 15 an "think" ur inlove wirh someone in there 20s no no for me

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