A question is about visit and delivery room at hospital

Cherie
I told my family and friends that i dont want anyone visit nor in delivery room. I got some people who not respect for what i want for myself and when baby boy is here. They got mad, nonrespect, tried convience me to. I told them that whenever i am ready and get well then can coming visit at my house or to somewhere else place. Is that wrong? 
Also, i dont want my mom in my delievery room. I am not very click with my mom sometimes. It made me feel i want stay away from her. I got a lot negative and complain about this part. I understand that is their first time. UGHHHH! Help me out please with no negative commet i had ENOUGH!