But I do not like my stepson. He's the most annoying child ever created. When I first met him 4 yrs ago he didn't act this way and didn't live with us but things have changed. He gets his way with his grandmother and now thinks he should get to do whatever he wants anywhere else in the world. He acts like a baby, talks like one, cries about everything. He's just so annoying and honestly I wished he didn't live with us but what can I do but keep my mouth shut and wait till the day he grows up and moves out.

Update: He's 10 not 4, if I could talk to the grandma don't you think I would? She's the worse and he wouldn't act that way if he didn't have contact with her but as his mom and dad don't think she's the issue we're left to deal with his issues. I've tried as much as I can, I have taught him to do things other boys have been doing for themselves. I love him, I just don't like his view on life.