So not that I can talk much because my husband an I have only been TTC for 8 months now and some of you have been trying a lot longer. But I get so frustrated when I hear about people know who don't even want kids yet just magically getting pregnant (some of them on BC) and I haven't been able to yet. Every one says oh just calm down and relax, it will happen when it's meant to happen but seriously how do you do that! My husbands sister came home for Christmas and "surprised" everybody. She says oh we were on the pill but it didn't work, getting pregnant is too easy. I know my husband could tell it hurt me. I really want to be happy for her but at the same time want our turn now.