I can't believe how fast this pregnancy has gone by, it seemed like with my 1st I was pregnant forever. With my son it's flying by. I have nothing for him except a crib and a couple outfits. I feel so unprepared this time! I don't know if I'll be having a baby shower because my sister is also pregnant and we would invite all the same people. And they would choose one or the other and I'm afraid they would choose hers all because she is high risk again and baby may come sooner. This is a bunch of crap because it's not like I could save clothes from my 1st since she is a girl and I'm having a boy. I would have a travel system but when my sister visited with her son I let her use it to get around and she ended up taking it to Arizona with her and her husband threw it away! It was a neutral travel system. I am so devastated. Has anyone gone through this and come out okay.