Husband says I'm paranoid...

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Had my 12 week scan recently and happy to see that the little one is well. I saw the heartbeat but was surprised they didn't let me hear it and that they didn't measure it. (I went for a private scan at 6 weeks and got to hear the heart beat and they measured it and told me if it was normal.) So now I'm feeling anxious about the 8 week wait till the 20 week scan and want to book another private one at 16 weeks for reassurance but my husband starts getting angry calling me paranoid and stupid for wasting my money on it. Feel completely unsupported and made to feel bad :(