Inducing for a FTM

Crystal
So I'm almost 39 weeks and hoping my baby comes soon. My parents live in TX and have a 12 hour drive and are waiting to leave until they get the call because they can only stay for two weeks and want as much time with the baby as possible. My doctor has told me that if my baby isn't here by the 12th (my due date) that she won't induce until the 19th! 😔 should I explain the situation to her and ask her to make an exception? 
Due to some family issues going on my parents are looking at leaving next weekend the 10th? I have an appointment on Thursday so maybe I'll know more then just want to know if I have a choice or if I have to wait until the 19th plus I'm feeling pretty miserable lol any help or suggestions are appreciated