While I did/do care about what happened/happenends to my kids while their being carried (health wise etc) I have to admit with my first (and probably with the baby I'm carrying now) I didn't fall in love right away like most mom's do it took me awhile is that wrong? Something wrong with me? Don't get me wrong I love my daughter I would give my life for her but I just feel like it took me longer to get there I guess I just had to get to know her to care for her to go through everything I did to get that deep appreaction and love I have for her now..