My mother is such a bigot. RANT

I dyed my hair purple and have been visiting for a couple weeks and she hasn't stopped harping on me about how im "rebelling" seriously I'm 32 if I want rainbow hair for f sakes I will but her friends seem to like it, but alas that is just the tip of the iceberg with her. She thinks gays are sick and unnatural, all  black people are the only ones who give their kids weird names and are trying to be African, I'm making my son gay because I dye his hair blue and let him have a pink MLP, oh and all gays and black people are pushing their agenda on everyone. This is only a few examples of the arguments we have had and I am attacking her because I'm trying to open her mind up and see past the tip of her nose.  You can lead a horse to water but can't force them to drink. There is a reason I can only visit every couple of years and for a short time.