Just me and my hormones??

Ch
My friend who I used to be close with but for the past year has been on my nerves for various reasons just found out I'm pregnant Bc we put out announcement on social media (we told our families and closest friends in person first).  My husband is worried Bc I've distanced myself from my 2 closest friends (too much negativity) and wants me to give her another chance.. Anyway... Now she wants to be close again Bc she wants to be around the baby when it gets here (to me seems selfish and another strike against her)... She not once said congratulations but did say yay WERE having a baby! .....I wanted to smack her thru the phone and say the only we in that statement is my husband and I. You're not having a baby.. Took all my strength not to respond.... Am I being hormonal? 😪