Can't decide

Rhonda
I've been ttc for almost 8 months now and nothing. I've tried laying down with my legs up just about every time. Tracking bbt. Opks. Pressed (1cycle). My husband is so supportive every time I get a bfn or af shows up he always tells me it's ok next month and so on. After this last try he said as well as others have told me in the beginning that just stop trying so hard with all the tracking and searching and thinking just have fun and let it be. I don't know if I should finally take this advice or keep tracking. Only reason why I'm considering it is bc at 4 months we both went to the doctors and he said I'm good to go and his sperm is good to go. No problems thankfully. I just want to be a mom so bad and I can't wait to have children with the love of my life. I mean you get married and think oh hey next comes baby ya not so easy for some. Any advice????