I was recently in the hospital for a very bad flu that caused me to not be able to breathe.. it was a horrible two days and I never posted anything til after I came home just to inform all my family and friends. This just all happened this week.

My 'fb friend' meaning we only went to school together is pregnant as well, maybe a week or two farther than me (I'm 19 weeks). She's a big girl, in the nice way of saying it. I would assume she was 250 before pregnant, she's probably now 300 pounds if not more. Every time she posts pictures she looks bigger. And now she's in the hospital for an extended stay til her baby is okay. I just find it not okay that she's this big and continues to pack on pounds knowing it's hurting her baby! Am I so wrong to think this way? I would try to get on a healthy and safe diet for her and baby, which I know is not the case for her! It's like she's acting like she has no idea that her weight is the issue.

Sorry just ranting. It makes no sense to me!