Husband venting!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm here to vent and I'm in need of some inputs plz. My husband is a great guy. He care for me and everything. The only thing is that he gets emotionally distant and knowing he is an introvert. It's really hard to tell what's going in his mind. Whenever we discuss a simple topic, he talks so loud and he always things he is right. Whatever I say doesn't make sense to him. Sometimes I have to keep my mouth Shut just to avoid argument. Because he doesn't know how to express himself not discuss a topic. It's driving me nut. I just want to know if any of you ladies have this issue with they SO. And how do you guys communicate?