Would this bother you?

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Boyfriend is a lot older and let's say his number is pushing up to 70, however he has been my one and only, would it bother you that your so has been with MANY more women than you thought he had been with? 
Like he points out, it all happened before me, so why is it bothering me so much that his number is so high?

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i guess i would be but it was BEFORE you. what do you mean point out? i hope he isnt sayin there is one girl i smashed lol that is rude and insensitive.   i wouldnt go unprotected regardless of what he tells you until i SAW his blood work. be safe than sorry

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My husband is around 50 and I'm 11. Doesn't bother me. But, if it does bother you maybe you need to experience someone else before settling down xx

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It would definitely bother me, when I was 15 I made the decision to stay a virgin until I got married and wanted to marry a man that had done the same. I was so lucky to find my husband who also waited, so I haven't had to experience what you are going through. I can see why it would bother you, but you have to make the decision about what you want to do about it.

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Eh. I never wanted to know my husbands number until he asked me mine. He had me guess his number which was a BAD idea 
10? ... Higher
20?.... Higher 
30?... Higher 
At that point I said NOPE don't want to know anymore. Makes me a little queasy to think of him having one night stands. So personally, I don't wanna know because I don't wanna think about it.

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My boyfriend has been with 11.. And he's my only and it still bothers me. It's hard but he wants you and that's all that matters so just try to breathe and love what you have.

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My husband is around 11, and I'm at 6. However he's been having sex for 9 years now and I've only been at it for 3. It bothers me because I wonder if those women felt for him what I do. It bothers him how many I've slept with and it's less than his number. It's human nature to be bothered by your spouse's past. But the past is the past.

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Nope. My husbands only slept with two women. I've slept with a lot of men. And I mean a lot. But, it doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. As long as we're faithful to each other, however many people you've slept with in the past is pointless.

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I've been with over 20 and I'm the only one my bf has been with it. I thought it would bother him but he tells me it all happened before him so it does and he's happy I'm experienced lol

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