So, ever since before I got pregnant my husband and I had a boy name and a girl name picked out. We ended up not naming our daughter what we had chosen and i'm now pregnant will a little boy and before I did want to name him after his dad but now I'm not sure, like I don't even call my husband by his name so I don't think I could ever call my son by that name I mean its not an ugly name i just don't know if I want that for my son. Also with his middle name, I told my parents the name my husband liked so now they always call my son by that name when they see me or touch my belly and call him by that name and when other family members ask them what were naming our son they always tell them the middle name it's getting annoying especially last time we went over to my in laws house and they bought up the name I said I wasn't sure I liked it and told them the name I actually like they all said "NO" don't change it! , um since when does everyone feel as if they have a say in what I name my kid ? -_- it's like fuck off. I feel like just naming him something else when were at the hospital. My husband is the only one that understands he tells me if I don't like the names it doesn't have to be that way. I just feel like what's the point of naming him after my husband if everyone is going to be calling him by his middle name like you're going to confuse the poor kid. I'm only agreeing to the name because my husband loves it and it's his baby too so he deserves to have a say in the name