Natural birth and breastfeeding

Just remember that what everyone else says is an opinion. If your doctor thinks you can go natural, do it! Lots of opinions but the only one that matters is yours!

I have a heart condition that I was diagnosed with at 15. Because of this, everyone keeps telling me that I need to have a c section and then have my tubes tired so I can't have anymore. I plan to go all natural unless my doctor see necessary to do otherwise. I don't do well with surgery so my doctor says natural is my best option and he feels confident that I can do it and come out fine! If I have no complications, I will not be having my tubes tied. I would love to have another if it's possible. My family isn't too happy about my decision but it's my choice and I am doing what I feel is best for me! 😊

Everyone I talk to is kinda like "yeah, wait till you're in labor" about the epidural thing. I really want to go natural too so I have been reading about natural pain relief and labor practices. No one gets a say except you so just ignore the negative people. Good luck!! 

I am ftm and planning natural. Everyone is very supportive and the side effects of epidural do not sound like something I want to try. I have been researching natural pain management in birth, have my "labor support bag" full of tools ready to go. Written my birth plan.Don't listen to what others say, you can do it if you put your mind to it.

I have the same views as you! I just ignore what everyone says, my baby not theirs!

I did a natural birth and I breastfeed my last one and plan to do the same with this one it's a blessing and you will feel great about it 

I know how you feel. I had the epidural with my first and wanted to do natural with my second. I pretty much did all natural except the last hour I opted for the epidural but That was a whole other reason. I think it's great. I do however suggest that you truly prepare yourself. I researched everything on natural birth, the process and how to cope with contractions. The week before I delivered I meditated lots and tried to put my mind in control and read many articles on how to cope with pain using Lamaz which is a way to distract yourself from pain and meditation. Other things that helped where the birthing ball. I advise since you will not get te epidural you should ask to be able to walk around . They can un hook you from IVs . That's what I did for 13 hours I was there walking and distracting myself and it helped to have someone there with me. Honestly it was a great experience however remember that if in the end you chose to get the epidural there is no shame and if you make it till the end good for you. I'm proud for being in labor 15 hours and going all natural for the first 14 hours. I decided for the epidural because after 13 hours I was only 5 cm dilated however the last hour and a half that I waited for the epidural were the final contractions and by the time I got the epidural an hour and a half later I was already 10cm dilated on my own and my water broke. I was so close but it was nice to rest for half an hour and then I felt the need to push and I still felt my contractions very mildly. It was a wonderful experience. Plus I'm one week post parting and I'm healing much quicker than the first time due to very low levels of epidural." Good luck an do not let anyone discourag you from a natural delivery. You don't even have to explain it to anyone. Again be truly prepared by being I tire with your body and knowing how to manage that pain. Good luck 

I wanted a natural birth but ended up getting the shot. I regret it so much. I have break pain now where they inserted the shot. I didn't have anyone to support me going natural in the hospital if I had I wouldn't of gotten it. I did stay true to breastfeeding. I was the first out of my family to do it and they all thought I was crazy but supported me for doing it thru the 15 months. As long as you have your mind set just stick with it and be confident in your decisions.

First off it's your body so u can do what ever you want even though the pain WILL be unbearable!! Secondly i have never heard of someone saying that it's stupid to breastfeed??? Obviously you're hanging around the wrong people hun!! Good luck...

Good for you !! I just made the decision as well .. We'll be having a laboring pool labor, & some birth balls ! I also got the whole .. "Yeah Ok, wait until the pain kicks in" response from people.. But once my mind is made up .. There's not much anyone can say to change it .. Plus my fiance is REALLY supportive .. & he's going to be a major part in helping ! Good luck to you 😊