Okay. I just have to complain and get it out before I lose it. I probably sound like such a crazy B**** but it drives me INSANE and literally pisses me off when my husband chooses masturbation over sex. We haven't had sex in a week but then he masterbates and when I try to have sex with him he says he's not in the mood he already took care of it. This isn't the first time this has happened so it really hurts my feelings. Feel free to tell me your HONEST opinions I need to know if I'm being a cry baby about this or is this normal? What can I do to change it? Do lots of women have this problem?