So my in laws are awful. They haven't been supportive acknowledge that this baby is related to them bc my wife isn't the one carrying the baby. Yesterday my wife asked my sister in law about coming to our baby shower and she literally responded with "nah I'll be out of town." Hurt my wife a lot and every time they do stupid shit like this I give them hell. I'm just at a loss for words. How ignorant can people be ? And we have an 8 year old, well my wife does. So my 8 year will notice they treat her brother badly. I will lose my shit and this is y I don't want my wife to carry the next baby. And that hurts her too. It shouldn't be like this