Do your husbands look after you

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Just wondering if your husbands take care of use whilst pregnant. 
Everytime i tell my husband to massage my back becoz it hurts. He just never listens! In general he dont listen. All he wants is fucking sex and its really fucking annoying especialy when ur in pain and just want to be massaged and cared. Ive had enough of him not ever listening to me. Im so fed up. Its always what he wants. 
For 2weeks ive been in pain and refused to do sex with him. Yet he forces me. So i swear at him and then he stops and leaves me alone. Why dont men fucking understand when a lady says NO. IT MEANS NO. 😡.

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Mine walks hand over foot for me. He gets me anything I want or need. He makes me dinner when I get home fro m work. Massages me. I have the ultimate perfect man.

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1. that's rape, he's screwed up for forcing his pregnant wife to do ANYTHING she doesn't want to. 
2. My husband works 14-16 hours a day and every once in a while I can get a massage out of him. Men in general don't usually listen. 
3. He only takes care of me when I'm unable to get out of bed. I cook and clean and still do everything before. It is painful (back and feet and sometimes headaches) but he works hard and makes the money to support us and I know at times it's painful for him to work too. 
4. It's all about balance. Everything is changing and you both have to find your balance with how things are now. If you're not happy you should talk to him and if he refuses to listen to stay with someone for a few days so he knows your serious. I'm not saying leave or divorce him. I'm just saying stay with a friend until he takes you seriously.

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If he's forcing you to have sex against your will, that's RAPE. Doesn't matter if you're married. If it's not consensual, it's illegal!

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Yeah no does mean no, doesn't matter if he's your husband, your body is your own

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Just tell him what will really turn you on to sex is a really nice back massage. This could easily be fore play lol. That way you both are getting what you want? Unless you seriously don't want sex right now? Or is it because you're just pissed at him? Pregnancy is harder than ppl think on relationships, I know first hand. Try a little compromising (you both obviously have needs that aren't being met). No sex makes me cranky, and so does pregnancy pain lol... Can easily turn into a vicious cycle of no one compromises. And for the record, my husband IS a bit nicer when I'm pregnancy. Nice like "here do you want the last chicken wing" or "I did the dishes and put the kids to bed already." I kinda have to beg or catch him right after sex for a back or foot rubdown haha

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That my friend is rape.

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If my husband tried to force me to have sex I would "accidentally" elbow him in the damn nose! That's rape, married or not. Now, my husband does paw at me and plead but if I firmly say NO or "get the hell off me" he rolls over, but never does he force me to do it.

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My boyfriend is the opposite he dont want to hurt the baby and he's always complaining you ain't surposed to be doing this or that just shut up already

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He forces you to have sex? That is not love. That is disturbing.

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Maybe you can see a counselor about this. Sounds like there is a lot that needs to be worked on in your marriage, and since you're being abused (because that's what this is), they can help you more than we can on this forum. Please take care of yourself and be strong.

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