This might be long, so I'll apologize now.

First, I want to say from the very beginning that I'm in NO WAY looking to offend anyone. Please, if I come out as rude, please belive when I say I'm not trying to be rude in any way shape or form.

I used to work as a dancer (stripper) a while back. On and off for 4 years. I've never worked at holes in the wall type clubs. I'm in South Florida. worked at Scarletts, Cheetah ( 3 locations-hallandale, pompano and west Palm Beach), Diamond Dolls, Booby Trap, Pure Platinum, Solid Gold...these are high class strip clubs ( not that I consider ANY strip club to be high class- far from it)

My "career" as a stripper did not work well and here's why: lately, since about 7 years ago, the term STRIPPER is very much associated with HOOKER. From personal and up close experience, I can tell you that a good 80% (if not more), of all MARRIED men that go to strip clubs, go there to get off (as in cum). In my 4 year journey and failed attempts to make the serious cash that strippers always talk about( a grad a night and that's NOTHING..SOME MAKE THAT IN 30 MINUTES VIP ROOMS), I've learned every trick known within the industry. I've seen women give BLOW JOBS in the VIP room for 100 bux. full intercorse for 150 bux. anal sex for 200 bux. (and these are the mediocre looking dancers). then I've seen the drop dead gorgeous ones, charge 1500 bux for a blow job. 2000 bux for full intercorse and 2500-3000 for anal sex. all this happening in the VIP room (champagne room). and the most disturbing thing is the the vast majority of men coming the door, are either in long time relationships or already married.

I've had MANY men (again in up scale clubs, not a dive) ask me if I do "extras" in the VIP room. I've had many of them ask out right how much I charge for a blow job.

I've never been able to fuck or suck for money. .the idea is sickening to me.

The management always looks the other way. .because the "house"(the club itself) charges the customer between 50 to 1000 bux for the VIP room alone. the dancer sets her own price and she gets paid upfront. none of the managers I've worked with, at any club, has ever enforced the "no sex in the champagne room" law. when u get hired, they give u an orientation tour of the club, and tell u to not engage in any sexual activities on the clubs premises. after that they don't care what u do. actually some managers, if they see u pouting and saying u can't make money, they even hint at doing extra stuff..

men's bathrooms come equipped with condoms, baby wipes, tooth brushes and cologne..just în case u need to freshen up before going home (to ur SO)

stripclubs are no longer a place to just watch some boobs, pussy and ass, get horny and go home. The vast majority are underground whore houses.

I've learned so many disturbing things, just by sitting on the locker room with the girls. it is simply nasty. Almost all have zero morals and would do ANYTHING for cash, or drugs. I once knew this dancer..35 years old, GORGEOUS WOMAN from head to toe. .and she had one customer that was also her drug dealer. every Friday he would come in and she would take him in the PRIVATE DANCE AREA (the lap dance area-not the champagne room), where she would give him two "lap dances" aka "the two song hand job" in most clubs the lighting in the dances area is horrid. .u barley see anything. .so u sit on top of him, he unzippes his junk, takes it out and she's give up a hand job on the "down low". at the end, she hands her a small bag of coke (cocaine)and goes directly to the bathroom, cleans up, then stage right-off the door he goes till next Friday. . she actually shared that information with us the girls, in the locker room. .as most girls have no shame of their game. .

don't know how it is where u live, but South Florida is simply horrid.

Most men walking into stripclubs here are in serious relationships or married. .yet they come in to "get away from the wife" or "forget about the problems at home".

and on top of that, I also know for a fact, from many women's mouth, that they use no protection(as in no condoms)

I've heard quite a few say that they are on birth control simply to be able to fuck anyone without worrying about pregnancy( and that was referring to customers, NOT their SO) due to all these horrific things I've seen and heard, from both customers and dancers, I've never been able to make more than 150 a night at best. .

I've had many dancers tell me to quit, because if I don't do "extras" I can't compete. it's one thing if the "ugly" ones decide to sell their bodies. .but when the impeccable, gorgeous, sexy as hell ones do the same thing, WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD ANY GUY GET A DANCE FROM ME, WHEN FOR 50 MORE BUCKS THE CAN GET A BLOW JOB from the model looking girl sitting at the bar? ?

I'm no barbie girl, but I'm not ugly either. I'm 5'1", 100 lbs. 34-24-34 measurements. long brown hair and I'm eastern european. and I wasn't able to come close to making even a quarter of what the nails and polish broken, make up messed up, 30 lbs overweight, cottage cheese covered ass, cigarette smoking, cross eyed, cheap cologne smelling mid 30s woman, shaking her very nasty looking ass on stage. why? because she changes 50 bux for a Blow job. (yes, some do that simply because it's easier. .most men can afford 50 bux.2 songs 50 bux blow job.. that's 10 minutes tops.then she moves to the next guy. ..instead of telling a customer 250 for half an hr VIP..then u have to "work him", convince him into it. .that takes finese..and time. .the guy orders a few drinks. .wants to talk. . then u take him to the VIP room (if she convinced him, if not..she wasted a good 30-45 minutes on one guy for nothing), if she convinced him, now it's another 30 minutes in the VIP room. .and I've heard stories..men like to sit and chat until there's 10 minutes left on the clock..then get to business. .a guy once told me he feels like he actually got what he paid for, by waiting till the end..because if u get down to business. .usually..guys cum quick..within 5-10 minutes (even faster if the girl is good)..and the guy feels like he got giped..go in, get off, get out, all within 10 minutes. ..

and again, management doesn't enforce rules, even when cameras are present. .and most owners know exactly goes on. .but as long as it's done on the down low they don't care. ..worse actually..I've had quite a few OWNERS ask me in their office..to " work off waving my 50 dollars house fee" for that night. .

I know not all places are as crazy as South Florida, I know some states have strict rules on touching the dancers. ..but sadly, u don't know what goes on behind closed doors or drapes.

I know there's some good girls out there(like myself), that LOVE POLE DANCING. .that love music. .and would never do "extras" but reality is the we are far and few in between. .

most would, and do anything for money and drugs..

and I'm not saying that ALL men do these horrific things when they do go to a strip club. ..

I just wanted to bring some attention to what REALLY goes down in the majority of them. .

I mean no direspect to anyone. .and I apologize if I offended anyone.