Wanting to live

Do any of you take any offense to the "wanting to live" statement while expecting a baby on the way? And is it bitching if I prefer him to not hang around those that will just in my opinion bring him down, such as bad influences. Ppl that just sit in the house all day smoke weed and play video games, steal and rob people, and others that just party and hang around sluts that nobody and their mothers would even trust!