We lost our sweet baby last week. We went to the hospital after I was having labor pains all night and was losing a lot of blood. We got in a room at 7:00 and at 7:30 they asked for a pee sample after I peed in the cup the baby passed. I didn't end up getting a D&C. I'm upset because I didn't ask to see the baby after they put it in a dish. When I was getting an ultrasound my husband said they carried it away in a dish with a white cloth covering it. I would have loved pictures, and to be able to hold my baby. I wish I could have got footprint's and handprints. We would like to know if our baby was a boy or girl. They never asked if we wanted any or these things! I was is shock and felt like I needed to have a smile on my face when I talked to the nurses and dr. I have no idea why? Our baby is going in for an autopsy. Do you think if it's not to late, if I can ask for the hand's and foot prints, pictures and to find out the gender? Also if you can kinda see the pic dose this look normal? Is the baby inside the casing?