I'm so annoyed right now, could be the harmones but I'm mad enough to spit fire. Ever since my husband and I found out we were pregnant there has been quite a few times close friends or relatives have gone out and told certain others that we were pregnant KNOWING THAT I OR MY HUSBAND PERSONALLY WANTED TO TELL THESE PEOPLE. they have seriously ruined it for us!! For example, my father in law told a large group of our friends and my husband had planned to announce it himself in a special way. Another example would be a friend of mine decided it was her "duty" to announce it to my entire church congregation before I could personally tell our pastor who I'd also a near and dear friend of my family. Ugh I'm so angry that I swore to myself for my next pregnancy I will not tell a soul. Seriously why can't people understand its not their place to tell something like this especially knowing you were planning to tell these people personally.